Ignoranta

Avand in vedere situatia actuala,bine cunoscuta,a refugiatilor sirieni,in cautare de o viata mai buna,am decis sa imi scriu parerea in legatura cu ignoranta unora dintre persoane,care chiar daca nu se afla direct si ''la fata locului'' cu acest eveniment care cuprinde Europa,sunt totusi predispusi la efectele pe care acest exod le are asupra populatiei,politicii si a economiei tarii din care fac parte. Nu imi voi spune parerea daca este bine sau rau acceptarea si integrarea refugiatilor sau care ar fi metodele cele mai potrivite pentru ajutorarea acestora,ci vreau sa vorbesc despre ignoranta unora dintre persoanele care sunt intr-o oarecare ''proximitate'' cu urmarile acestui fenomen.

Nu pot intelege ignoranta si delasarea persoanelor care,fiind cetatenti,presupus maturi si ''culti'',care au trecut prin scoala,care au asistat la orele de istorie si mai mult decat atat,au si inteles cateva dintre lucrurile discutate la acele ore,care au surse nelimitate de informare,in fata carora mass-media este un personaj omniprezent,sa nu aiba nici o opinie despre ceea ce se intampla in tara lor sau in continentul pe care locuiesc. Aceasta ignoranta,mai ales venita din partea generatiei tinere,care este asaltata de pe retelele de socializare,televizor sau radio despre situatia actuala,care este intens discutata de toate statele europei si nu numai,o situatie care este discutata si cunoscuta la nivel mondial sa ii lase cu aceasta indiferenta. Nu inteleg cum poti fii atat de indiferent la un eveniment in care tu,ca si cetateanesti intr-un fel implicat,la nivel de societate si nationalitate,sa nu ai nici o parere. Un moment in care un alt popor,de o alta cultura si traditii,un popor care fuge de realitatea tarii in care traieste,de realitatea care este definita prin razboaie si haos,prin moartea a mii de oameni si prin incercarea lor de a-si parasi tara si de a veni pe teritoriul tau,de a veni in cultura ta si de a se integra in normele si cerintele unei societati occidentaliste,iar tu sa ramai indiferent mi se pare o lipsa de interes crunta. Nu este cerut nimanui sa fie la zi cu absolut toate informatiile,fie pro,fie contra acesor lucruri,nu este cerut nimanui sa stie numere si statistici exacte a persoanelor refugiate,nu este cerut nimanui sa stie intreaga istorie sau numarul de razboaie,liderii politici care au opinii despre aceste evenimente,dar cred ca orice cetatean,care este cat de cat constient de statutul lucrurilor,si  gandeste  in afara ariei lui vizuale si de cunoastere mediocra,redusa la lucrurile de zi cu zi,reduse la orizonturi mici,reduse la discutii comune,banale,care ii pun,metaforic vorbind,''ochelari de cal'', este un statut care,din punctul meu de vedere,te reduce la mici dimensiuni. Chiar daca nu poti ajuta direct,nu te poti implica direct,trebuie sa fi auzit macar cateva lucruri despre acest subiect,sa poti avea o replica de dat care sa vizeze acest subiect.

In concluzie,ignoranta si gandirea ingusta a unor persoane a fost unul dintre lucrurile care mereu m-au iritat,deoarece nu pot intelege cum unele persoane,in momentul in care beneficiaza de toate sursele de informare,persoane care traiesc intr-un regim politic democrat,persoane care au acces la informatii,imagini,filme si parerei a milioane de oameni din intreaga lume,a milioane de voci si pareri sa stea indiferente si sa traiasca cu viziunile inguste la care ii rezuma viata de zi cu zi. Daca ai parte de toate acestea,mi se pare o lipsa de respect fata de ceea ce ai,pentru a te irosi in primul rand pe tine,pentru a nu avea viziune si pentru a nu iti folosi viziunea. Nu ii este cerut nimanui sa se implice emotional sau economic,dar macar foloseste-ti viziunea si informatiile pe care le ai pentru a avea cat de cat habar si a fi constient de probleme care te privesc ca om,in aceasta lume,indiferent despre epoca,eveniment sau oameni implicati.

Stock your mind, stock your mind. You might be poor, your shoes might be broken, but your mind is a palace. - Frank McCourt

Things I value

Value is a word that can be described in many ways. For some people value is the price of your car,the price of you phone or how much money you spent on something. Others measure ''value'' in money,grades,moments,feelings. I have a few things that I value and I really appreciate when I find them.
One of them is ''appreciation''. Appreciation is very important,especially between people. We can't pe always pleased with everything that we have.Maybe we want a bigger house,a car that is more expensive or things like that. I really appreciate people who value the things I do for them. I try to be a nice person and help my friends and care about them,and show them that. I don't want anything else,but I really appreciate when I hear that ''thank you'',or ''thank you for being there'' or ''thank you for your help'',or even a smile on your face and an approval that you are grateful for my trying to make you happy.

The shitty shit

We all know that feeling of having a crush on someone. Either you're a boy or a girl,having a crush can be a very annoying thing sometimes,especially if you don't talk to each other. So,as any other girl,I have a crush. It's a funny story actually and if some famous director reads this he or she can contact me to make a movie about it. 

So,my story is kinda weird but my crazy friends help me to follow him. Yeah,I know that sounds weird and creepy but let's be serious...who doesn't follow their crush? He is a cool guy,as we like to say he is a ''heart-braker''. He is cool and smart ( and what the fuck is happening....I've never thought I will ever write something like this on my blog,but it's just for amusement). My story is like the ones you see in american movies,when the girl either is a creep or a nerd. Well,in this case I am not a nerd but I can say that I have too much energy,and I always have to say something stupid,do something stupid,laugh too much and thigs like that. Altough,I am not a stupid girl,I know a lot of things,and I can be described as a tomboy. 

Being a girl in the 21st century can be a very demanding task and fashion is very important,especially when you are a teenager and you want to stand out of the crowd. I don't really pay too much attention at the way that I dress,I usually wear black jeans,sneakers and a T-shirt. I like fashion,I like to see clothes that are fashionable but I feel more comfortable wearing what I like and what I think that describes my personality. 

So,I was talking about this cool guy. We talked a few times,just usual things just to make conversation but now I don't even think he remembers my name :))). I have two moods. Whenever I am out and I have to meet other people I can socialize very easily and when I talked to him I was like :Hmm...sooo,you like french fries? That is so lame and hilarious that when I think about it,it makes me laugh.

I guess we all know the story of Cinderella. Well,there is The Prince Charming,who is cool,he has a cool horse,he is tall and handsome...aaand there is Cinderella. But,wait a minute,we are in real life. Maybe I don't have to do a lot of house chords,like Cinderella,but definitely there won't be a fairy who will magically transform me into a princess and I won't lose my shoe (unless I am drunk or my shoelace is not tight enough). I won't be able to learn overnight how to walk like I am flying,how to wave my hair like I get rid off the star dust that got stucked in it,I won't be able to blink like someone is filming me in slow motion. I will always say dirty jokes,go biking,I will always be interested in things that are more appropriate for boys,I will always like pizza too much,I will always laugh too much and too loud....things that are not really specific for a girl.

I have done a lot of weird things in my life. Like going to a person on the street and saying ''hey,i know you from the kindergarten'',or ''fighting'' for what I really believed in,I even closed my eyes while I was on the bike while crossing a bridge (and yes,I was about to fall,because I touched the bridge edges and I was about to fall in the water) and just thinking about saying ''Hey'' makes me wanna jump off the bridge. 

Well,I the only thing I can do is to accept the situation.In the end I have a nice story to tell and also a reason to laugh!